Can you imagine the journey west as the pioneers and settlers traveled thousands of miles from the eastern U.S. to explore the west, looking for further freedom to claim land, pursue their dreams and establish homes with families?
Native American lives were impacted greatly as the frontier was being explored by those seeking better lives. Let’s not forget their struggles and desires to live peacefully and pursue their dreams as well.
Imagine the hardships, rocky terrain, streams, wildlife and challenges along the way. Many lost their lives. Many fell short of their dreams. Many arrived. Many fulfilled their dreams.
Memorial Day in the United States is Monday. Many are enjoying friends and family during the long weekend. Merchants have sales going on. I saw some fireworks for sale in a grocery store a couple of days ago. I heard two sports radio talents talking about going to the beach, relaxing, cooking out and other activities. At least they did mention to remember those serving in the military. So, what is Memorial Day and how should we celebrate, or should we?
Memorial Day is not Veterans Day. It’s not the Fourth of July. It’s not Labor Day and other typical
Memorial Day is an American holiday, observed on the last Monday of May, honoring those who died while serving in the U.S. military. It was originally known as Decoration Day, originating years after the Civil War, which ended in 1865 and claimed more lives than any conflict in U.S. history. Memorial Day became an official federal holiday in 1971. https://www.history.com/topics/holidays/memorial-day-history
By the late 1860s, Americans in various towns and cities
had begun holding springtime tributes to the countless fallen soldiers,
decorating their graves with flowers and reciting prayers.
During World War I the United States found itself embroiled in another major conflict. The time of remembrance was then changed to remember American military personnel who died in all wars.
Memorial Day continued to be observed on May 30 for decades
until Congress passed the Uniform Monday Holiday Act in 1968, creating Memorial
Day as the last Monday in May, which established Memorial Day as a federal
holiday that enabled a three-day weekend for federal employees.
Service members, veterans and their families know there is a big difference between Memorial Day and Veterans Day. While Veterans Day, Nov. 11, is a day set aside to celebrate all veterans, Memorial Day is a somber holiday dedicated to honor military fallen, with a special focus on those killed during military service or through enemy contact. https://www.military.com/memorial-day
Both holidays often include parades, ceremonies and celebrations. But although Memorial Day also traditionally marks the beginning of summer with picnics and parties, many in the military community believe that at least a portion of it should be set aside to mourn and honor the fallen.
want to go a litter further though. Yes,
Memorial Day was established for those who bore the weight of battle to the last
degree, but what about those who came back changed to the degree they felt
there was no reason for them to continue living?
Don’t these military members experience a certain death, whether physical injury like loss of limb, traumatic brain injury and mental health challenges? While they may be here physically, mentally some may be elsewhere, or think there is no need to continue living – but yes, there is a need and a reason.
We owe our support and gratitude to those who served – going when and where the nation needed them.
I know the U.S. Veterans Administration (VA) is doing a great work and is constantly working on behalf of our veterans. One of their studies can be found at https://www.mentalhealth.va.gov/docs/2016suicidedatareport.pdf. And, I realize the national suicide rate continues to climb with our general population. Let’s continue getting to the root cause though and never abandon our pursuit to not loose one life.
Each life is precious, deserving the best care and support possible. I recall a personal situation where one Soldier returned from combat. His mother noticed a change in behavior, how he was more quiet and secluded, as well as not sleeping well. This behavior had changed from the son she knew before deployment.
The mother notified the unit the Soldier deployed with. The unit made an appointment with the VA and he received medication. The mother called weeks later. She mentioned her son had stopped taking his medication and was missing for over a week. He was later found by law enforcement. Full military funeral honors were given to honor this fallen Solder.
There are so many factors related to the mental health of those
serving in stressful situations, and encountering things the human brain has difficulty
comprehending. Post-traumatic stress
disorder (PTSD) is a common term we’ve head for years now. Stress can lead to deep mental health
concerns if not managed.
I personally think the “disorder” terminology should be discarded. Let’s deal with the post-traumatic stress, or
even depression – helping the person with his or her individual behavior,
concerns and providing all that can be provided within our medical achievements.
With proper recognition of symptoms, showing care, effective
individual treatment and being a caring community, we can curtail the loss
Still, may we continue remembering those who have passed from our presence – giving their all in the line-of-duty.
How do other countries remember those
who died fighting for their freedoms, or who have experienced the burden of conflict? Is freedom even important that one would die
trying to gain it, or keep it?
Let’s never forget those who sacrificed
so much, and their families who long to celebrate with their loved one if he or
she was here.
I have had the solemn honor of meeting
with family members when they first learned of their military member’s
death. I still see the pain and the
sorrow. I tried to comfort and help families
the best I could during some of their darkest moments.
I’ve had the solemn honor of rendering military honors with firing salutes, folding the U.S. flag for presentation, and presenting the flag of the United States of America to the closest next-of-kin, softly speaking these words: “On behalf of the President of the United States, the United States Army (or Air Force) and a grateful nation, please accept this flag as a symbol of our appreciation for your loved one’s honorable and faithful service.
I will always remember these special moments. I have a special affection for these Families who remain to carry on the remembrance of their Soldiers.
So, Memorial Day 20l9, let’s take a few minutes to at least remember and show respect.
We can still celebrate because that is one of the reasons our brothers and sisters fought so valiantly, to their last breath, to gain and maintain these freedoms we enjoy. Let’s also include those who are still with us today, and not let them become a statistic too.
I’m glad we were able to visit some
national parks in Washington, D.C. recently before the temporary U.S. Government
shutdown. Otherwise, our latest trip
would resemble one a few years ago when we visited during the previous
It was disappointing during the shutdown a few years ago – for us and those from around the world – and equally disappointing during the latest shutdown when the public could not visit the parks under the federal government’s control.
I thought of those who looked forward to visiting the various national parks, including the pillars of democracy in D.C. I’m sure they were disappointed again. I thought about the employees and their families and the struggles they endured.
I’m glad these parks will open again this week as employees can work without having to wait for their pay. As I looked at some of these photos they reminded me of the dark times of government when even the parks designed for enjoyment and learning were minimized, when they should be shining bright for freedom.
I’m thankful for local, national and international guests to be able to visit and learn about the United States of America, its uniqueness, its foundation and the desire to help those seeking freedom during the ages.
May we always be open while protecting those within and without.
Yes, you read this correctly. There is a place in the U.S. Capitol called the Crypt.
For a long time the term has referenced the
space below the main floor of a church or a chamber in a mausoleum. We often think of a crypt as a place for
Why the capitol then? It is something different. The Crypt contains 40 smooth Doric columns of sandstone, which support the arches holding up the floor of the Rotunda, the large, domed, circular room located in the center of the Capitol on the second floor.
The columns are modeled on the Temple of Poseidon, which were the shortest and the strongest columns that survive from classical Greece.
The sandstone floor hosts hundreds of people visiting every day from around the world. The white stone compass star in the center marks where the city’s four quadrants meet.
Around the perimeter are statues
of prominent individuals from the nation’s original 13 colonies. Display cases present exhibits and historic
The Crypt was associated with a proposed interment even before it was built. After the death of President George Washington in 1799, Congress resolved to honor him in the Capitol.
A chamber for the remains of the
first president and his wife was added to the plans for the center section of
the building and constructed two stories below the Rotunda. Directly above the
tomb, where the center of the Crypt is located, was to be placed a marble
statue of Washington.
A 10-foot circular opening was left in the center of the Rotunda floor so that visitors could view it from above. However, Washington’s grave remained at Mount Vernon in accordance with his wishes, and no statue of him was ever placed in the Crypt.
George Washington truly represented our nation and its values well. He didn’t want to become a king but simply wanted to return to his civilian life after his term was over so others could be elected president.
Maybe our political leaders should revisit the ideals of President Washington in providing selfless service for the people.
It’s new, at least to me. Have you stayed at Hilton’s Tru Hotel yet. I had my first stay during our trip to Washington, D.C.
I don’t receive any benefit by writing about Hilton properties but their brands are my preference. We typically stay at a Hampton Inn and Suites but the Tru Hotel was readily available and the price was right.
I was impressed.
The open-air lobby was well-lighted and inviting with modern décor and design. The rooms were immaculate and comfortable.
The front desk was in the center of the lobby surrounded by snacks, breakfast bar area, work spaces, seating areas and recreation. This stay was during the Christmas season so the tree was nicely adorned with matching colors.
The Tru Hotel we stayed in was in Sumpter,
I thought since many of us had sufficient sweets during the past month we may have a body reaction by now – to indulge ourselves again.
What if I just posted some images from Smallcakes near Washington, D.C. (Arlington, Virginia close to the Pentagon)? Well, sure, why not?
I have some future posts about Smallcakes in other locations but I wanted to wet your appetite so you won’t have withdrawals. Okay? Will that work?
Smallcakes is a sweet place to get your sugar fix; the only thing though – they don’t have gluten-free ones. Bummer! That’s okay, family and others sure enjoy them. I’ll just look and smell, and photograph. 😊